Thursday, July 13, 2006
My thoughts
gosh, I'm still having my tummyaches even after medication... argh!!! I dun wanna be sick!!! =(( but anywho, other than that unpleasant factor, I'm a happy person. Most important reason being that I'm really living in pure bliss everyday! I love my crazy, wacky and very lovable family AND of course, my darling baby - Wei =) He's been such a sweetie ever since he came back from France (no, it's not because he did something bad there and is trying to make up for it.. hahaha)! Extra patient, nice, giving, loving etc etc etc....... such a sweetie pie *gushes*... he must have realised what a gem I am after travelling with so many females who are totally not in my league... hehehehe
Enough of gushing, I want to blog about something serious. While I am living in pure bliss, I know of others who aren't and are in fact going through rollercoaster times. First things first, I have to admit that at times, guys aren't the only jerks around. Girls can be quite "jerkish" too. I mean, I have heard of many cases where the girl just take the guy for a ride and think it's perfectly okay. I dun wanna be too specific here so I'm just gonna make generalisations. I dun believe that any girl should hug/kiss/hold hands with a guy if she's not gonna start a relationship with him. Fair enough right? If it is a case of the girl not knowing that the guy is already attached (
like one of my poor friend who got cheated), then I really sympathise with her and will join her in her crusade against the guy after the truth be told. BUT, if the girl already has a bf and yet still keeps giving the wrong signals (
eg: doing the abovementioned, going out on 1-to-1 dates, telling him she likes him - you get the drift) to the guy who understands from her that she's gonna break up with her bf (
read: which is a blatant lie), then I think this poor guy's the victim here and the girl ought to be hanged.
In the first place, I can't even imagine why anyone would do that. Yes, no doubt, we all live in the 21st century, which is one where the culture/society is open. But I believe that certain conservations would still have to be kept to at least keep oneself dignified and not cheapened.
So whoever said that guys are always the players should really eat up his/her words. I am a feminist but I cannot condone such disgusting acts which I feel are totally uncalled for and embarrassing to the entire female specie.
My sincere apologies if this came across too harsh or heavy. Just wanted to get myself heard =)
Disclaimer: I am not trying to ostracize or offend anyone here. Please take this with a pinch of salt and pardon my bluntness if you do not agree with what I've written. Once again, my sincere apologies.
Kel ♥
11:29 PM
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